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Wednesday, January 30, 2013

Wednesday, January 30, 2013

IMPORTANT PARKING INFORMATION FOR TOWN HALL MEETING: We are excited to share the details about our new building at our upcoming town hall meeting on Sunday, February 10, from 2 to 4. Parking is available at the new building (200 West Dundee Road, Wheeling) as well as at the Hawthorne School in Wheeling, which is located just north of the building. To get to the Hawthorne School parking lot from Dundee Road, take Wolf Road (which is just east of the building) north to Glendale Road. Make a left turn onto Glendale Road. It dead ends at the Hawthorne School, which is located at 200 Glendale Road. We have permission to use their lot. For more information on the town hall meeting, go to Membership and Upcoming Events.



To view this blog in its entirety, go to our website!

What’s Happening at a Glance

Membership and Upcoming Events
The madrichim!
  • Save the Date: Town Hall meeting about the new building on Sunday, February 10
  • NEW DATE: Wednesday, February 6: Next book club
  • Join Shir Hadash to see The Whipping Man on February 16 or February 17
  • Soup kitchen on February 17
  • Limmud Chicago on February 17
  • Purim Extravaganza on February 23
Education Update
  • Tu B'Shevat photos and more
  • Purim carnival on February 24
  • Upcoming school schedule
Our students performing at the Tu B'Shevat field trip
Teen News
  • Purim carnival planning on Sunday, February 10
  • National Teen Kallah
  • Thank you for chaperoning!
Creative Worship & Ritual
  • Friday, February 1: The Plagues and the Exodus
Community News
  • Parent & Family Connection for LGBTQ Jews in Chicagoland

Membership and Upcoming Events

Save the Date: Town Hall Meeting on February 10
Please mark your calendars for Sunday, February 10 from 2 to 4 p.m. We would like to invite our members and guests to join us for a Town Hall meeting to share information about the building. The location for the meeting will be at the building (200 W. Dundee Road in Wheeling). Refreshments will be served and everyone will have a chance to tour the building. The building will be shown in its current state (no improvements or safety measures for small children); therefore, we ask that only adults and teens attend. Please remember that the building is under the seller’s ownership at this time, so we will conduct a series of tours to minimize congestion and risk to individuals and property. See the top of this page for parking instructions.


NEW DATE! Next Book Club on February 6
Our next book will be One More River by Mary Glickman. This novel is about race, class, and Jewish life in the American South during the 1920s and 1960s. The story revolves around a man pursuing his roots in the course of a romance. The book was chosen by Spertus for the “One Community, One Book” for this year. Book Club will be held on Wednesday, February 6, at 7:30 at the Zwicks’ home, 385 Castlewood Lane, in Deerfield. Contact Meryl Abensohn at abenkras@aol.com to RSVP and for more information.

Join Shir Hadash to See “The Whipping Man” on February 16 or 17
On Saturday, February 16, or Sunday, February 17, Shir Hadash will be going to the theater to see the play “The Whipping Man.” “The Whipping Man” takes place immediately after the end of the Civil War. When Caleb, a wounded Confederate soldier, returns home, he finds his family’s home in ruins and abandoned by all but two former slaves. United by their Jewish faith, the three men celebrate Passover while wrestling with a shared past they cannot escape. They unravel a tangle of secrets that threaten their family and faith. Slavery and war, they discover, warp even good men’s souls. The playwrite, Matthew Lopez, won the 2011 NY John Gassner Playwriting Award by the NY Outer Critics Circle for this play.

Shir Hadash will be going to the play on both Saturday February 16, at 8 p.m. and Sunday, February 17, at 2:30 and 7:30 p.m. Tickets at $15 are sold out for Saturday performance but are still available at full price. Reduced rate tickets are still available for both Sunday performances on February 17. Contact NorthlightTheatre to purchase tickets. Use the code THWEEK to get this rate. The play had gotten great reviews from several of our members. We hope you can join us! Contact Meryl Abensohn at abenkras@aol.com for more information.

We will plan to have a discussion of the play about two weeks after the outing. So go see it whenever you can!

Soup Kitchen on February 17
The Social Action Committee needs your help. On Sunday, February 17, we will be preparing, cooking and serving over 90 meals to needy individuals at the St Paul’s Lutheran Church soup kitchen in Evanston. This event will require volunteers to be available from 1:30 to 4:30 p.m. We need a minimum of 25 volunteers, or about 10-12 families.

Each family will be responsible for bringing an entrée that will feed 15 to 20 individuals, 1 gallon milk, 1 gallon orange juice, 1 large bag frozen mixed vegetables, 1 large bag of fruit (oranges, bananas, etc.), and dessert. If you are interested in helping, please click on the following link. Please note that we are limiting the number of volunteers for this activity to help avoid overcrowding in the kitchen and to ensure everyone has a meaningful volunteer experience. Once all slots are filled, we will not be accepting any additional volunteers. More information will be sent to all registered volunteers approximately one week before the event. The next opportunity to volunteer for a Soup Kitchen will be fall 2013. There is no age limit to volunteer, but from past experience, kids should be at least six years old to fully participate. Contact Social Action Committee Chair Mark Lenhart at (847) 478-1544 or mjlenhart@comcast.net if you have questions.

Limmud Chicago on February 17
On Sunday, February 17, there is a very special Jewish learning event going on at UIC—the fourth annual Limmud Chicago! Limmud Chicago features sessions on a wide variety of topics of Jewish interest—cultural, religious, geographic, or political. There are two special themes this year:
  • The Jews Who Made Chicago: This theme explores Chicago’s Jewish changemakers of yesterday and today, and the influence Jews have had on Chicago’s architecture, political system, music, art, neighborhoods, theater and more.
  • Jewish Love: This theme addresses the vast landscape of Jewish love, from what text has to say about gender roles to discussions of Jewish masculinity to how to love at the end-of-life.
Shir Hadash is a sponsor, so if you register, there is a special discount! Registration prices go up on February 1, so you should check it out now, at www.limmudchicago.org. We are going to arrange a "field trip" for Shir Hadashniks that are heading down to UIC, so if you’re interested, send an e-mail to Andrea Idelman, at andrea0822@yahoo.com, and we’ll get a car pool together.

Purim Extravaganza on February 23!
Shir Hadash is hosting a Purim party for all adults—singles and couples—at Rocky Vander's Cafe, 698 N. Milwaukee Avenue, Prospect Heights (immediately south of Palatine Road), from 7 to 11 p.m. on Saturday, February 23. See friends and make new ones. The party will feature a DJ, dance floor, cash bar, and Italian dinner buffet.  Potluck dessert—please bring hamantaschen (prizes given for the best homemade hamentaschen!), and other desserts. We’ll also play party games! Come as you like or as you want. Costumes are encouraged. The cost is $20/person. (Festivities start and run throughout the evening, but if you have to miss dinner, come at 9 p.m. for $10). RSVP by February 19 (we need to give the restaurant a head count!) by sending an e-mail to membership@shir-hadash.org or calling Rebecca at (847) 509-9951. Prepayment is appreciated; please send your check to the Shir Hadash office (send it ATTN: PURIM); cash or check only at the door.

Education Update

At the Joyfully Jewish Table on the Tu B'Shevat field trip
Tu B’Shevat Photos and More
Last Sunday marked the third walking field trip our students have made to the JUF Tu B”Shevat Family Celebration. We spent the morning in study at the Hellenic Academy and then made the quick trip over to the Chicagoland Jewish High School, where the fun (and education) ensued. Please visit Education Director Emily Ascher’s blog to see many more photos of our kids on the field trip.


Purim Carnival on February 24
Get your costumes ready. The Shir Hadash Purim Carnival will be on Sunday, February 24! Nat Arons and the madrichim (teen assistants) are getting creative. We are all going to have a great time.

Upcoming School Schedule
  • Sunday, February 3: Sunday School
  • Sunday, February 10: Sunday School
  • Monday, February 11: Havayah (High School Class)
  • Friday, February 15 to Sunday, February 17: Youth Kallah (Retreat) in Wisconsin
  • Sunday, February 17: No Sunday School
  • Sunday, February 24: Purim Carnival 11:05
  • Friday, March 1: Shabbat services will be led by grades K through 3
  • Monday, April 1: Havayah (high school class)
  • Sunday, April 7: 7th Graders Present: Yom Hashoah Service at Sunday School
  • Sunday, April 14: Sunday School
  • Monday, April 15: Havayah
  • Sunday, April 21: Yom Tikkun Olam (Day to Repair the World) No school at Hellenic American Academy
  • Sunday, April 28: Sunday School Open House for Prospective Members
  • Monday, April 29: Last Day of Havayah BBQ
  • Sunday, May 5: Last Day of Sunday School
  • Friday, May 17: Shabbat services will be led by our Havayah
Teen News

Purim Carnival Planning on Sunday, February 10
The madrichim are busy working with Nat to create an all-school Purim program on Sunday, February 24. The teens are working hard to make this a special experience for our Sunday School. Madrichim: the final planning meeting will be on Sunday, February 10, at 8:40 a.m.

National Teen Kallah
The weekend of March 22-24, 8th through 12th graders from Reconstructionist congregations across North America will have the opportunity to attend the exciting No'ar Hadash North American Teen Kallah, which will be held this year in Boston. This amazing weekend will be a great opportunity for you to meet other teens, have fun, take part in experiential Jewish learning, laugh at an improv comedy show, sing and dance, hang out, explore Boston, and be part of our exciting youth movement. Please contact info@campjrf.org or youth@shir-hadash.org for an application.

Last call: Kallah! Midwest Regional Retreat February 15 to 17
Planning is underway for the 2013 No’ar Hadash Midwest Youth Kallah, which will be held from February 15 to 17, 2013, at a NEW location. This year, Shir Hadash 6th to 12th graders will share a great weekend with teens from other Reconstructionist congregations at the Perlman Retreat Center at Camp Beber in Wisconsin. Registration information has been mailed home. To register, or If you are an adult and would like to help chaperone for the weekend, please e-mail Carole Mostow at youth@shir-hadash.org.

Thank You for Chaperoning!
Thank you to our madrichim chaperones who helped watch our students at the JNF Tu B'Shevat celebration at CJHS last Sunday. The kids had a great time walking around the exhibits with the teens. We appreciate your help in supervising the students during the field trip. Kol Hakavod!

Creative Worship & Ritual

Friday, February 1: The Plagues and the Exodus
So did the Exodus really happen? How about the plagues? Do we take the Bible literally on these issues, or not so much? At services next Friday night, February 1 (7:30 at LCHS), we look into these issues. Our Torah portions during this month are all about the plagues and the Exodus, so we'll explore what the Torah has to say, and then view a video—“The Bible's Buried Secrets”—that provides some interesting new information and perspectives. Then, of course, we'll have a wide-open dialogue. So while the Rabbi's in Israel with the Ta'am kids, come to this lay-led service, and be a part of the discussion! Plus, bring something for oneg...


Donations

Thanks to the following people for their donations:


General Fund

  • Chantal Kessel, in memory of Judy Hartsman, mother of Glenn Graff
  • Mark Einstein, in memory of Judy Hartsman, mother of Glenn Graff

Rabbi's Discretionary Fund

  • Susan and Geoffrey Grossman, in memory of Ed Kaplow

Community News

Parent & Family Connection for LGBTQ Jews in Chicagoland
Is your child gay, lesbian, transgender, queer, or questioning? Do you want to talk to other Jewish families with LGBTQ children? If so, join the monthly discussions with Parent & Family Connection for LGBTQ Jews in Chicagoland. Upcoming meetings will be held on March 11, April 22, and May 20. Upcoming topics will include: transgender youth; passing--who knows, who doesn’t know; navigating a hetero-sexist world; healthy relationships and violence in the GLBTQ community; and conversation about creating inclusive communities.

With support from Keshet (www.keshetonline.org), Response provides group support for those dealing with any stage of the coming out process. Response helps adolescents in the Jewish and general community develop skills in communication, decision-making and leadership necessary to deal with life’s challenges. Response is a program of JCFS, a partner in serving our community, supported by the Jewish United Fund/Jewish Federation.

SHOP Shir Hadash

SHOP for Game Day
Shop orders of at least $400 are now payable by credit card. Annual SHOP orders are also payable by credit card. If every family purchases $400 a month in grocery, gas, or other cards, we can earn more than $15,000. Shir Hadash believes that an inability to pay should never be a barrier to membership or education. Special consideration is given to our members when circumstances prevent them from meeting any part of their financial commitment. To offset this consideration and to make up the budgetary deficit, the Board is asking that all members consider making a monthly commitment to using shop gift cards. Purchasing SHOP gift cards helps the shul raise much needed funds without spending any more money than you already do for your regular expenses. A complete list of the many gift cards available through this program, along with the percentage the shul earns is available on our website. Orders can be picked up at Sunday school or the Shir Hadash office.

Thanks to the following families for supporting SHOP this week:
  • Callistein
  • M. Graff
  • Schleicher
  • Idelman
  • Zoloto
  • Friedman
  • Sabatello

Wednesday, January 23, 2013

Wednesday, January 23, 2013

BUILDING UPDATE: Please mark your calendars for Sunday, February 10 from 2 to 4 p.m. We would like to invite our members and guests to join us for a Town Hall meeting to share information about the building. The location for the meeting will be at the building (200 W. Dundee Road in Wheeling). Refreshments will be served and everyone will have a chance to tour the building. The building will be shown in its current state (no improvements or safety measures for small children); therefore, we ask that only adults and teens attend. Please remember that the building is under the seller’s ownership at this time, so we will conduct a series of tours to minimize congestion and risk to individuals and property.

To view this blog in its entirety, go to our website!

What's Happening at a Glance

Membership and Upcoming Events
  • Save the Date: Town Hall meeting about the new building on Sunday, February 10
  • NEW DATE: Wednesday, February 6: Next book club
  • Join Shir Hadash to see "The Whipping Man" on February 16
  • Soup kitchen on February 17
  • February 23: Purim extravaganza
  • New directories distributed
Education Update
  • Second and third graders to perform this Sunday on the Tu B'Shevat field trip
  • Purim carnival on February 24
  • Permission slips still needed for Tu B’Shevat field trip
  • Upcoming school schedule
Teen News
  • Madrichim meeting this Sunday, February 27
  • Kallah! Midwest Regional Retreat February 15 to 17
Creative Worship & Ritual
  • Friday, February 1: The Plagues and the Exodus
Adult Education
  • Sunday, January 27: Torah study, 9:30 a.m. at Hellenic
The Rabbi's Corner
  • "Finding Our Humanity"
Community News
  • Parent & Family Connection for LGBTQ Jews in Chicagoland

Membership and Upcoming Events

Save the Date: Town Hall Meeting
We are going to have a Town Hall meeting at the new building on Sunday, February 10, from 2 to 4 for adult members and guests. The building is located at 200 W. Dundee in Wheeling. See the announcement at the top of the page for more information.

NEW DATE! Next Book Club on February 6
Our next book will be One More River by Mary Glickman. This novel is about race, class, and Jewish life in the American South during the 1920s and 1960s. The story revolves around a man pursuing his roots in the course of a romance. The book was chosen by Spertus for the "One Community, One Book" for this year. Book Club will be held on Wednesday, February 6, at 7:30 at the Zwicks’ home, 385 Castlewood Lane, in Deerfield. Contact Meryl Abensohn at abenkras@aol.com to RSVP and for more information.

Join Shir Hadash to See “The Whipping Man” on February 16
On Saturday, February 16, Shir Hadash will be going to the theater to see the play “The Whipping Man.” “The Whipping Man” takes place immediately after the end of the Civil War. When Caleb, a wounded Confederate soldier, returns home, he finds his family's home in ruins and abandoned by all but two former slaves. United by their Jewish faith, the three men celebrate Passover while wrestling with a shared past they cannot escape. They unravel a tangle of secrets that threaten their family and faith. Slavery and war, they discover, warp even good men's souls. The playwrite, Matthew Lopez, won the 2011 NY John Gassner Playwriting Award by the NY Outer Critics Circle for this play.

We will go to the 8 p.m. performance on Saturday, February 16, at the Northlight Theatre in Skokie. Contact Northlight Theatre to purchase tickets. A limited number of tickets are available for $15 for the evening of Saturday, February 16. To get this price, you need to mention “Theatre Week” or include the promotion code “THWEEK.” If you cannot join Shir Hadash on the evening of February 16, the play is being performed January 18 to Februrary 24. You can get reduced ticket cost of $15 during theater week (February 12 to 17). Otherwise, prices range from $34 to $64. Also, try Goldstar and Hottix for tickets. For more information, contact Meryl Abensohn by e-mail at abenkras@aol.com

We will plan to have a discussion of the play about two weeks after the outing. So go see it whenever you can!

Soup Kitchen on February 17
The Social Action Committee needs your help. On Sunday, February 17, we will be preparing, cooking and serving over 90 meals to needy individuals at the St Paul's Lutheran Church soup kitchen in Evanston. This event will require volunteers to be available from 1:30 to 4:30 p.m.  We need a minimum of 25 volunteers, or about 10-12 families.

Each family will be responsible for bringing an entrĂ©e that will feed 15 to 20 individuals, 1 gallon milk, 1 gallon orange juice, 1 large bag frozen mixed vegetables, 1 large bag of fruit (oranges, bananas, etc.), and dessert. If you are interested in helping, please sign up by clicking on this link. Please note that we are limiting the number of volunteers for this activity to help avoid overcrowding in the kitchen and to ensure everyone has a meaningful volunteer experience. Once all slots are filled, we will not be accepting any additional volunteers. More information will be sent to all registered volunteers approximately one week before the event. The next opportunity to volunteer for a Soup Kitchen will be fall 2013. There is no age limit to volunteer, but from past experience, kids should be at least six years old to fully participate. Contact Social Action Committee Chair Mark Lenhart at (847) 478-1544 or mjlenhart@comcast.net if you have questions.

Purim Extravaganza on Saturday, February 23
Fun night out! This year, we are holding a Purim party for adults at Rocky Vander's Cafe, 698 N. Milwaukee Avenue, Prospect Heights (immediately south of Palatine Road), from 7 to 11 p.m. on Saturday, February 23. The party will feature a DJ, dance floor, cash bar, and dinner buffet. Potluck dessert—please bring hamantaschen (with a prize for the best homemade hamentaschen!), other desserts, and fruit. We’ll also play party games! Come as you like or as you want. Costumes are encouraged. Stay tuned for more details! For more information or to RSVP, contact Melanie Andes at fmandes@comcast.net or Rebecca Rice at r.rice1@comcast.net. We hope to see you there, and feel free to invite a friend!

New Directories Distributed
On behalf of membership, directories have been passed out to Shir Hadash members at the Lights and Miracles service and to parents of religious school students. If you have a student in the school and you did not receive a directory, please e-mail Rebecca Rice at r.rice1@comcast.net. If you have a student that attends Havayah, or if you don’t have a child in religious school, your directory is in the process of being mailed to you. Be on the lookout for your directories!

Education Update

Second and Third Graders to Perform on Sunday at Tu B'Shevat Field Trip!
This Sunday, January 27, Shir Hadash students, teachers, madrichim, and parents will attend our annual walking field trip to the JNF’s Tu B’shevat Family Celebration. Under the enthusiastic guidance of dance teacher Rebecca Rice, the second and third graders will perform a spunky Tu B’Shevat dance at the gathering. Parents are invited to join us at the Hellenic Academy at 11:15 a.m. We will walk over for the activities and 11:55 performance. PLEASE MAKE SURE YOUR CHILDREN WEAR WARM CLOTHES.

Tu B'Shevat Field Trip Permission Slips Still Needed
If you haven’t already done so, please turn in a permission slip for your child to attend our upcoming Tu B’Shevat field trip on Sunday, January 27, from 11:30 a.m. to 12:30 p.m. The Jewish National Fund’s Tu BiShvat Family Celebration is held at the Chicagoland Jewish High School, 1095 Lake Cook Road, which is directly south of Hellenic American Academy. We will have a nice group of our Sunday school students dancing onstage and there will be free arts and craft projects, free planting, free entertainment, games and prizes. Forms should be turned into the office or brought to school on Sunday morning

We need your help caring for our students that day! It’s a chance to do show your child(ren) you support them in Sunday school and you know how to have FUN! Please fill out your permission slip and return to your child’s classroom by January 20, or send to the office (Shir Hadash, 3340 Dundee Road, Suite 2N4, Northbrook, IL 60062). If you can’t find the form, visit Education Director Emily Ascher’s blog—it’s posted there!

Purim Carnival on February 24
Get your costumes ready. The Shir Hadash Purim Carnival will be on Sunday, February 24! Nat Arons and the madrichim (teen assistants) are getting creative. We are all going to have a great time.

Upcoming School Schedule
  • Sunday, January 27: All-School Tu B'Shevat Walking Field Trip (2nd and 3rd graders to perform)
  • Sunday, February 6: Sunday School
  • Sunday, February 10: Sunday School
  • Monday, February 11: Havayah (High School Class)
  • Friday, February 15 to Sunday, February 17: Youth Kallah (Retreat) in Wisconsin
  • Sunday, February 17: No Sunday School
  • Sunday, February 24: Purim Carnival 11:05
  • Friday, March 1: Shabbat services will be led by grades K through 3
  • Friday, May 17: Shabbat services will be led by our Havayah

Teen News

Madrichim Meeting This Sunday, January 27
We have another madrichim meeting this Sunday, January 27, to work on the Purim Carnival. Please plan to arrive by 8:40 a.m. to meet and go over assignments and details, and to strategize ways to make the Purim Carnival meaningful for our students and their families. Our next Purim Carnival meeting will be on Sunday, February 10, at 8:40 a.m. to finalize our plans and make sure everything is covered.

Deadline Extension: Kallah! Midwest Regional Retreat February 15 to 17
Planning is underway for the 2013 No'ar Hadash Midwest Youth Kallah, which will be held from February 15 to 17, 2013, at a NEW location. This year, Shir Hadash 6th to 12th graders will share a great weekend with teens from other Reconstructionist congregations at the Perlman Retreat Center at Camp Beber in Wisconsin. Registration information has been mailed home. The registration deadline has been extended to January 25. If you are an adult and would like to help chaperone for the weekend, please e-mail Carole Mostow at youth@shir-hadash.org. Please contact Carole with any questions.

Creative Worship & Ritual

Friday, February 1: The Plagues and the Exodus
So did the Exodus really happen? How about the plagues? Do we take the Bible literally on these issues, or not so much? At services next Friday night, February 1 (7:30 at LCHS), we look into these issues. Our Torah portions during this month are all about the plagues and the Exodus, so we'll explore what the Torah has to say, and then view a video—“The Bible's Buried Secrets”—that provides some interesting new information and perspectives. Then, of course, we'll have a wide-open dialogue. So while the Rabbi's in Israel with the Ta'am kids, come to this lay-led service, and be a part of the discussion! Plus, bring something for oneg...

Adult Education

This Sunday (9:30 at Hellenic), we continue with the story of the Israelites leaving Egypt. So the plagues are done, Pharaoh lets us go, we're walking, we're walking... So we come to the Red Sea, then through the Red Sea, then we thank the Lord, then Miriam and the ladies do their thing, then there's some manna and quails - yes, quails. You think that you know the whole story? Don't be too sure! Here's the portion! Come and discuss!

The Rabbi's Corner

January 25-26, 2013 / 15 Shevat 5773
Shabbat Beshalach & Tu B’Shvat Festival
Torah - Exodus 13:17-17:16 / Haftarah - Judges 4:4-5:31
“Finding Our Humanity”

Dear Friends,

Last Sunday I studied this week’s Torah portion with our wonderful 6th and 7th graders during Religious School. I asked the students to come up with as many questions as possible about the Torah story, which includes the Exodus--leaving Egypt and crossing the Sea. One of the questions that arose was simply, why do we call it the Red Sea, when the English translation we read called it the Reed Sea? Which one is correct?

I have been thinking about this question and now understand that both are correct. The Hebrew term for the body of water crossed by the Hebrews is Yaf Suf, which means literally a sea of reeds. This is a swampy marshland with tall cane and grasses…

To read the rest of Rabbi Eitan’s blog, visit The Rabbi's Corner.

Shabbat Shalom
Rabbi Eitan Weiner-Kaplow

Community News

Parent & Family Connection for LGBTQ Jews in Chicagoland
Is your child gay, lesbian, transgender, queer, or questioning? Do you want to talk to other Jewish families with LGBTQ children? If so, join the monthly discussions with Parent & Family Connection for LGBTQ Jews in Chicagoland. Upcoming meetings will be held on February 25, March 11, April 22, and May 20. Upcoming topics will include: transgender youth; passing--who knows, who doesn’t know; navigating a hetero-sexist world; healthy relationships and violence in the GLBTQ community; and conversation about creating inclusive communities.

On Monday, January 28, we will be viewing and discussing the film “Hineini.” Hineini is the story of one girl’s attempt to start a Gay Straight Alliance (GSA) at her pluralistic day school and the struggles and triumphs that her endeavors earned. Please join us for the film and discussion afterward. The event will be held from 7 to 8:30 p.m. at Response, 9304 Skokie Blvd, Skokie. Light refreshments will be provided. For more information or to RSVP, contact Rachel Marro, RachelMarro@jcfs.org. Please RSVP as space is limited.

With support from Keshet (www.keshetonline.org), Response provides group support for those dealing with any stage of the coming out process. Response helps adolescents in the Jewish and general community develop skills in communication, decision-making and leadership necessary to deal with life’s challenges. Response is a program of JCFS, a partner in serving our community, supported by the Jewish United Fund/Jewish Federation.

Donations

Thanks to the following people for their donations:

General Fund
  • Jennifer and Alan Bernover
Rabbi’s Discretionary Fund
  • Ruth and Jeff Wallk, in memory of Helen Wallk
  • Ruth and Jeff Wallk, in memory of Ed Kaplow

SHOP Shir Hadash

SHOP for Game Day
Shop orders of at least $400 are now payable by credit card. Annual SHOP orders are also payable by credit card. If every family purchases $400 a month in grocery, gas, or other cards, we can earn more than $15,000. Shir Hadash believes that an inability to pay should never be a barrier to membership or education. Special consideration is given to our members when circumstances prevent them from meeting any part of their financial commitment. To offset this consideration and to make up the budgetary deficit, the Board is asking that all members consider making a monthly commitment to using shop gift cards. Purchasing SHOP gift cards helps the shul raise much needed funds without spending any more money than you already do for your regular expenses. A complete list of the many gift cards available through this program, along with the percentage the shul earns is available on our website. Orders can be picked up at Sunday school or the Shir Hadash office.

Special Offers
Enter the ShopWithScript Facebook sweepstakes for a chance to win a Buffalo Wild Wings® Big Game Bash, including a $200 gift card, koozies and more, all provided by our friends at B-Dubs®. To enter, 'Like' the ShopWithScrip® Facebook page and answer a few questions. A Facebook account is free and easy to set up, if you don't have one already, and the ShopWithScrip page keeps you updated on all our latest news. This promotion starts January 14 and runs through January 25. Click here to visit the ShopWithScrip page on Facebook and enter to be eligible to win! If you're having trouble entering the B-Dubs® Big Game Bash on our ShopWithScrip® Facebook page, type http://a.pgtb.me/5Hh6zd into your browser to view the page on your mobile phone or tablet.

Thanks to the following families for supporting SHOP this week:
  • Friedman
  • Weiner-Kaplow
  • Tashma
  • Lewin
  • Weiss
  • Callistein
  • G. Graff
  • Schleicher

Wednesday, January 16, 2013

Wednesday, January 16, 2013

BUILDING UPDATE: Please mark your calendars for Sunday, February 10 from 2 to 4 p.m. We would like to invite our members and guests to join us for a Town Hall meeting to share information about the building. The location for the meeting will be at the building (200 W. Dundee Road in Wheeling). Refreshments will be served and everyone will have a chance to tour the building. The building will be shown in its current state (no improvements or safety measures for small children); therefore, we ask that only adults and teens attend. Please remember that the building is under the seller's ownership at this time, so we will conduct a series of tours to minimize congestion and risk to individuals and property. Please look for a brief announcement from our President for a building update and an agenda for the Town Hall meeting.

To view this blog in its entirety, go to our website!

What's Happening at a Glance

MOSH outing: Dinner before the Bulls game
Membership and Upcoming Events
  • Save the Date: Town Hall meeting about the new building on Sunday, February 10
  • February 7: Next book club
  • Save the date! Purim Extravaganza on Saturday, February 23!
  • New directories distributed
  • Photos from MOSH’s Bulls outing
Education Update
  • Permission slips needed for Tu B’Shevat field trip
  • Havayah to Attend Rick Recht Concert on Monday, January 21
  • Upcoming school schedule
Teen News
  • Madrichim meeting this Sunday, January 20
  • Registration Deadline Extension: Kallah! Midwest Regional Retreat February 15 to 17
Creative Worship & Ritual
  • Friday, January 18: Storahtelling at Shabbat services
Adult Education
  • Torah study this Sunday, January 20
The Rabbi's Corner
  • "Change for Change"
Community News
  • Parent & Family Connection for LGBTQ Jews in Chicagoland

Membership and Upcoming Events

Save the Date: Town Hall Meeting
We are going to have a Town Hall meeting at the new building on Sunday, February 10, from 2 to 4 for adult members and guests. The building is located at 200 W. Dundee in Wheeling. See the top of this newsletter for details!

Next Book Club on February 7
Our next book will be One More River by Mary Glickman. This novel is about race, class, and Jewish life in the American South during the 1920s and 1960s. The story revolves around a man pursuing his roots in the course of a romance. The book was chosen by Spertus for the "One Community, One Book" for this year. Book Club will be held on Thursday, February 7, at 7:30 at the Zwicks’ home in Deerfield.


Purim Extravaganza!
Fun night out! This year, we are holding a Purim party for adults at Rocky Vander's Cafe, 698 N. Milwaukee Avenue, Prospect Heights (immediately south of Palatine Road), from 7 to 11 p.m. on Saturday, February 23. The party will feature a DJ, dance floor, cash bar, and dinner buffet. Potluck dessert—please bring hamantaschen (with a prize for the best homemade hamentaschen!), other desserts, and fruit. We’ll also play party games! Come as you like or as you want. Costumes are encouraged. Stay tuned for more details! For more information or to RSVP, contact Melanie Andes at fmandes@comcast.net or Rebecca Rice at r.rice1@comcast.net. We hope to see you there, and feel free to invite a friend!

New Directories Distributed
On behalf of membership, directories have been passed out to Shir Hadash members at the Lights and Miracles service and to parents of religious school students. If you have a student in the school and you did not receive a directory, please e-mail Rebecca Rice at r.rice1@comcast.net. If you have a student that attends Havayah, or if you don’t have a child in religious school, your directory is in the process of being mailed to you. Be on the lookout for your directories!


Dinner before the Bulls game
Photos from MOSH’s Bulls Outing
We had 26 people attend our Bulls outing last week, including the rabbi. We had a yummy dinner at The Greek Islands and then headed to the game. The game was a nail biter and unfortunately the Bulls lost but everyone had a great time.

Education Update

Field Trip Permission Slips Needed
Your child brought home a permission slip for our upcoming Tu B’Shevat field trip on Sunday, January 27, from 11:30 a.m. to 12:30 p.m. The Jewish National Fund’s Tu BiShvat Family Celebration is held at the Chicagoland Jewish High School, 1095 Lake Cook Road, which is directly south of Hellenic American Academy. We will have a nice group of our Sunday school students dancing onstage and there will be free arts and craft projects, free planting, free entertainment, games and prizes.

We need your help caring for our students that day! It’s a chance to do show your child(ren) you support them in Sunday school and you know how to have FUN! Please fill out your permission slip and return to your child’s classroom by January 20, or send to the office (Shir Hadash, 3340 Dundee Road, Suite 2N4, Northbrook, IL 60062). If you can’t find the form, visit Education Director Emily Ascher’s blog—it’s posted there!


Havayah to Attend Rick Recht Concert
Next Monday, January 21, our Havayah (8th grade through high school class) will meet at Temple Beth El for the Rick Recht concert. Our 8th Grade Ta'am participants (including Rabbi Eitan and his son Ayal) and some Shir Hadash song leaders (who will be attending the bootcamp) are participating in the concert. The rest of us will meet and enjoy the concert. Please make sure to eat before you get to the concert and note that the concert is supposed to end at 7:30.  Parents are welcome to stay. Contact Emily Ascher at eddirector@shir-hadash.org to RSVP or with any questions.

Upcoming School Schedule
  • Sunday, January 20: Sunday School, please return field trip forms!
  • Monday, January 21: Havayah (at Rick Recht concert)
  • Sunday, January 27: Tu B'Shevat Field Trip (we walk to the event next door)
  • Sunday, February 3: Sunday School
  • Sunday, February 10: Sunday School
  • Sunday, February 17: Kallah in Wisconsin/No Sunday School
  • Sunday, February 24: Purim Carnival 11:05
  • Friday, March 1: Shabbat services will be led by grades K through 3
  • Friday, May 17: Shabbat services will be led by our Havayah

Teen News

Madrichim Meeting THIS Sunday, January 20
The madrichim will meet this Sunday, January 20 from 8:40 to 9 a.m. Please join us for a short but important meeting. As always, donuts will be provided. Please let Carole know if you are unable to attend: youth@shir-hadash.org.

Registration Deadline Extension: Kallah! Midwest Regional Retreat February 15 to 17
Planning is underway for the 2013 No'ar Hadash Midwest Youth Kallah, which will be held from February 15 to 17, 2013, at a NEW location. This year, Shir Hadash 6th to 12th graders will share a great weekend with teens from other Reconstructionist congregations at the Perlman Retreat Center at Camp Beber in Wisconsin. Registration information has been mailed home. The registration deadline has been extended to January 25. If you are an adult and would like to help chaperone for the weekend, please e-mail Carole Mostow at youth@shir-hadash.org. Please contact Carole with any questions.

Creative Worship & Ritual

Friday, January 18: “Yosi Had a Little Lamb”
 “Yosi Had a Little Lamb”—Maven and Comedian Aaron Freeman, David Edler, Carly Matt and Rabbi Eitan Weiner-Kaplow bring Storahtelling to Shir Hadash. The First Passover in ancient Egypt was a huge festival that all the Hebrews shared. The lessons from that evening still speak to us and the real-time issues of our lives to this very day. Don’t miss this exciting and dynamic Storahtelling Torah reading Shabbat service. Just like we saw on Rosh Hashanah morning, Maven Aaron Freeman, David Edler, Carly Matt and Rabbi Weiner-Kaplow will present the Torah portion with a combination of drama, commentary and discussion in order to bring the Torah lesson to life in ways you never expected. We will also have a special send-off ceremony for our eight 8th graders heading to Israel with the Ta’am Yisrael program. Services will be held at LCHS at 7:30; please bring treats for the oneg.

Adult Education

Torah Study This Sunday, January 20
So we're not quite done with the plagues yet - three to go! But of course, there's more to the story in this week's Torah portion—the whole “Passover” concept, all of those people leaving Egypt in a hurry, the dough for the bread not having time to rise... Be at Torah class on Sunday at 9:30, at Hellenic, and hear how it all went down.  Come and discuss!


The Rabbi's Corner

January 18-19, 2013 / 8 Shevat 5773
Shabbat Bo
Torah - Exodus 10:1-13:16 / Haftarah - Jeremiah 46:13-28
“Change for Change”

Dear Friends,

In this week’s Torah portion we read about the first Passover meal celebrated on the evening before the Exodus from Egypt. On that night our ancestors sacrificed lambs and smeared the blood on the doorposts and lintels of their homes. They roasted the meat thoroughly and ate it quickly. Each person had a walking staff in hand, sandals on feet and coat on in preparation for moving quickly when the time was right. The Torah teaches that they shared their meals so that everyone, whether from a large or small family, whether wealthy or poor, could eat and partake of the celebration meal. From this experience comes the line we recite in every Passover seder since that evening, “Let all who are hungry come and eat.”

That line went through my mind a few weeks ago in a Las Vegas parking lot. I had just pulled in when a young man approached me for some spare change. He told me that he and a friend had just been evicted from an apartment and that he was out of cash. I could have given him a few dollars and wished him well, as I sometimes do when in a hurry. Instead, I asked if he was hungry. Indeed he was. So, I took him into a Burger King and told him to order whatever he wanted…

To read the rest of Rabbi Eitan’s blog, visit The Rabbi's Corner.

Shabbat Shalom
Rabbi Eitan Weiner-Kaplow

Donations

Thanks to the following people for their donations:

General Fund
  • Marilyn Keller, in memory of Ed Kaplow
  • Debra Burman-Gisby, in memory of Ed Kaplow
  • The Meilech Family, in memory of Judy Hartsman, mother of Glenn Graff
  • Elizabeth and Richard Rotberg, in memory of Ed Kaplow
  • Tamar and Elliot Frolichstein-Appel, memory of Judy Hartsman, mother of Glenn Graff
  • Red Stone Equity Partners in Cleveland, Ohio, memory of Judy Hartsman, mother of Glenn Graff  
Rabbi’s Discretionary Fund
  • Dawn and Monty Allen, in memory of Ed Kaplow
  • Molly and Mark Michaels, in memory of Ed Kaplow
  • Gina and Rick Zinbarg, in honor of their daughter Emily's bat mitzvah
  • Ila S. Rothschild, in honor of Rabbi Eitan Weiner-Kaplow
School Fund
  • Molly and Mark Michaels, in memory of Joanie Siegel
  • Dawn and Monty Allen, in memory of Joanie Siegel
Music Fund
  • Ila S. Rothschild, in honor of Cheryl and Jim Schultz
Building Fund
  • Ila S. Rothschild, in honor of Bob Roiter
Community News

Parent & Family Connection for LGBTQ Jews in Chicagoland
Is your child gay, lesbian, transgender, queer, or questioning? Do you want to talk to other Jewish families with LGBTQ children? If so, join the monthly discussions with Parent & Family Connection for LGBTQ Jews in Chicagoland. Upcoming meetings will be held on February 25, March 11, April 22, and May 20. Upcoming topics will include: transgender youth; passing--who knows, who doesn’t know; navigating a hetero-sexist world; healthy relationships and violence in the GLBTQ community; and conversation about creating inclusive communities.

On Monday, January 28, we will be viewing and discussing the film “Hineini.” Hineini is the story of one girl’s attempt to start a Gay Straight Alliance (GSA) at her pluralistic day school and the struggles and triumphs that her endeavors earned. Please join us for the film and discussion afterward. The event will be held from 7 to 8:30 p.m. at Response, 9304 Skokie Blvd, Skokie.   Light refreshments will be provided. For more information or to RSVP, contact Rachel Marro, RachelMarro@jcfs.org. Please RSVP as space is limited.

With support from Keshet (www.keshetonline.org), Response provides group support for those dealing with any stage of the coming out process. Response helps adolescents in the Jewish and general community develop skills in communication, decision-making and leadership necessary to deal with life’s challenges. Response is a program of JCFS, a partner in serving our community, supported by the Jewish United Fund/Jewish Federation.

SHOP Shir Hadash

SHOP for Game Day
Shop orders of at least $400 are now payable by credit card. Annual SHOP orders are also payable by credit card. If every family purchases $400 a month in grocery, gas, or other cards, we can earn more than $15,000. Shir Hadash believes that an inability to pay should never be a barrier to membership or education. Special consideration is given to our members when circumstances prevent them from meeting any part of their financial commitment. To offset this consideration and to make up the budgetary deficit, the Board is asking that all members consider making a monthly commitment to using shop gift cards. Purchasing SHOP gift cards helps the shul raise much needed funds without spending any more money than you already do for your regular expenses. A complete list of the many gift cards available through this program, along with the percentage the shul earns is available on our website. Orders can be picked up at Sunday school or the Shir Hadash office.

Special Offers
  • Enter the ShopWithScript Facebook sweepstakes for a chance to win a Buffalo Wild Wings® Big Game Bash, including a $200 gift card, koozies and more, all provided by our friends at B-Dubs®. To enter, 'Like' the ShopWithScrip® Facebook page and answer a few questions. A Facebook account is free and easy to set up, if you don't have one already, and the ShopWithScrip page keeps you updated on all our latest news. This promotion starts January 14 and runs through January 25. Click here to visit the ShopWithScrip page on Facebook and enter to be eligible to win!
Thanks to the following families for supporting SHOP this week:
  • Zinbarg
  • Soglin
  • Joanne Litman
  • Allen
  • Farkas
  • M. Graff
  • Zwick
  • Zoloto
  • Weiner-Kaplow
  • Gordon
  • Judith Litman