Thursday, February 28, 2013

2/28/2013




To view this blog in its entirety, go to our website!

What’s Happening at a Glance

Membership and Upcoming Events

  • Community Seder at Our Lady of the Brook, March 26
  • Social Action: Passover Baskets
  • April Book Club: Everything is Illuminated
  • Israel Solidarity Day, Sunday, April 28
Education Update

  • Grades K – 3 to share pizza dinner and lead Shabbat service, March 1
  • Upcoming school schedule
  • Education Director’s Blog: Purim Carnival Photos
Teen News

  • National Teen Kallah, March 22-24
Creative Worship & Ritual

  • Shabbat service March 1, 7:15 p.m. at LCHS.
Adult Education

  • Was Spinoza a Jewish Thinker?
Community News

  • Parent & Family Connection for LGBTQ Jews in Chicagoland
SHOP Shir Hadash

Membership and Upcoming Events

Share Your Feedback on the New Building
Check out the plans for our new building!  We've got all the details posted in a special section of our website. We want to hear from you -- let us know what you think! Please e-mail your thoughts to Shir Hadash President Jeffrey Wallk at president@shir-hadash.org. Thanks!

Save the Date for Our Community Seder
This year, our community seder will be held on Tuesday, March 26, at Our Lady of the Brook, 3700 Dundee Road in Northbrook. Details soon to follow. Contact Melanie Andes at fmandes@comcast.net or (847) 913-9198 if you have any questions.

A Night to Remember at the Adult Purim Party



Shir Hadash's first Purim Party for adults was a great success. Not only did King Ahasuerus show up, but so did Mordechai. Raggedy Ariel and Raggedy Ari brought lots of friends along with them: tourists, gypsies, medieval ladies, Venetian Carnavalers, belly dancers, Little Red Riding Hood, a Greek soldier, and Ace Ventura -- not to mention lots of people who looked like they came from a mythical place called Chicago in the year 2013. Raggedies Ariel and Ari won the costume contest.


Rocky Vander's put out a delicious buffet of vegetables and dip, salad, pasta with fish in olive oil and garlic, eggplant parmesan, and garlic bread. They make their own potato chips that they bring out hot from the fryer, and they are fantastic. After dinner, we had a rousing game of Purim Jeopardy. Team 4 pulled out in front and won the game. As usual, Shir Hadash's bakers made delicious Hamatashen. Lise Schleicher won the Hamatashen contest. the bartender served up ancient drinks like Mordechai's Martini. After the game, the dinner tables were moved off of the dance floor, the disco ball began to spin, and the DJ got the music going. We then rocked around the clock to music from the '60s, '70s and '80s. Before we knew it, it was time to head home.

Business Mastermind Group
The Business Mastermind Group will be meeting on the first Sunday of each month while religious school is in session, from 10:30 a.m. to noon. The mission is to build mutually beneficial relationships with Shir Hadash small business owners by providing value to other group members. Each meeting will feature a topic of interest that everyone agrees is important. We will focus on that topic for the whole meeting with everyone providing examples of their experiences related to the topic. At the first meeting, the group will pick a list of topics. Each meeting will start with brief introductions of everyone in the group. In this way, new people are always invited and will feel comfortable attending. For more information, contact Dan Wellisch at danw@wellsoftware.com.

Social Action Opportunities
Once again this year, Shir Hadash will be joining with Maot Chitim of Greater Chicagoland to help them pack and deliver Passover food baskets for needy Jewish families all over the Chicago area.  There are two different ways you can help, either packing food boxes or delivering them. 

- PACKING will take place on Sunday, March 10th from 10:30 a.m. to 11:15 a.m.  The address for the packing is 5990 W. Touhy, Niles, IL. 

- DELIVERY of food packages will take place on Sunday, March 17th, from 9:30 a.m. to 11:30 a.m. in the Buffalo Grove/Wheeling area.  We will be delivering 105 food packages, which will be in large boxes weighing approximately 20 lbs. each.  We deliver to several large complexes and use a rental truck to transport the boxes.  I will provide the address of where to meet for those interested in helping deliver boxes. 
        
To make this a smooth operation, we need approximately 10 people for packing on March 10th and about 10 - 15 people for delivery on the March 17th.

If you are interested in helping on one or both of these dates, please respond to Mark Lenhart, Social Action Chairman, at mjlenhart@comcast.net as soon as possible so he can coordinate plans with Maot Chitim. Mark will be able to provide volunteers with more details shortly before each date.

Book Club
February's Book Club featuring One More River by Mary Glickman was attended by twelve SH members. The discussion was quite insightful about Southern Jews and how they differed from their cousins in the North. The topic of Jews in the South will continue with information about Jewish slave owners. This subject was brought up in the play "The Whipping Man".

The next Book Club will be held in April. The book will be Everything is Illuminated by Jonathan Safran Foer.This is the story of a young American Jew who flies to the Ukraine to search for the woman who saved his grandfather's life during the Nazi invasion. Concurrently the play is being performed at the Next Theater in Evanston.

We are still seeking someone to host Book Club in April. For more information contact Meryl Abensohn at abenkras@aol.com.




Israel Solidarity Day
Mark your calendar for JUF’s Israel Solidarity Day/Walk With Israel on April 28. The 2013 event will be held at Ravinia Festival in Highland Park from 10:00 am to 4:00 pm. Live music, service projects, and an energizing atmosphere of community spirit will make this a day to remember! For detailed information and registration, visit the JUF website.

Education Update

Friday, March 1: Pizza Dinner for K through 3rd Graders!
This week's Shabbat service promises a good time with families from the Shir Hadash primary grades Gan (Kindergarten) through 3rd grade. The children always have a great time helping Rabbi Eitan lead services, and who can turn down the opportunity to celebrate shabbat with a such lovely group of people?! Services will be held at LCHS. Stay tuned for more information!

Purim Party
The school’s purim party was a great success thanks to our wonderful madrichim! Visit our Education Director’s blog for more fun photos.

Upcoming School Schedule
Friday, March 1: Pizza dinner and Shabbat services led by grades K through 3
Monday, April 1: Havayah (high school class)
Sunday, April 7: 7th Graders Present: Yom Hashoah Service at Sunday School
Sunday, April 14: Sunday School
Monday, April 15: Havayah
Sunday, April 21: Yom Tikkun Olam (Day to Repair the World) No school at Hellenic American Academy
Sunday, April 28: Sunday School Open House for Prospective Members
Monday, April 29: Last Day of Havayah BBQ
Sunday, May 5: Last Day of Sunday School
Friday, May 17: Shabbat services will be led by our Havayah

Teen News

Kol Hakvod
Thank you to Nat and the madrichim who successfully revived our all school Purim program last Sunday, February 24th. The teens worked hard to make this a fun experience for everyone who participated. From the Purim spiel to the games, hamantashen and art projects everyone chipped in to make this day great for our students and their families. We are sure to carry on your fine work for years to come.

Madrichim Meeting
The next Madrichim meeting will be on Sunday, March 10th at 8:40 (before Sunday school). We have to work out the details for our next big school event, so please mark your calendars for the meeting.

National Teen Kallah
There is still time to register!  The weekend of March 22 - 24, 8th - 12th graders from Reconstructionist congregations across North America will have the opportunity to attend the exciting No'ar Hadash North American Teen Kallah to be held this year in Boston. This amazing weekend will be a great opportunity for you to meet other teens, have fun, take part in experiential Jewish learning, laugh at an improv comedy show, sing and dance, hang out, explore Boston, and be part of our exciting youth movement.  Please contact info@campjrf.org  or youth@shir-hadash.org for an application.

Save the Date: Saturday evening, May 11th- High School event with JRC.  Details to follow... stay tuned!


Creative Worship & Ritual

Meet Our Service Leaders of the Future—and Present!
After a pizza dinner at 5:45 for our service on Friday, March 1 (7:15 at LCHS), join us for a very special program, led by the Kindergarten, 1st, 2nd, and 3rd graders of our Religious School. Our students have been hard at work learning their prayers, and now they get the chance to recite them in a real service. Of course, there will also be singing and storytelling - and don't forget to bring something for the pot-luck oneg! This service is for everyone—the kids, their families and friends, and everyone else who enjoys sharing a Friday night with Shir Hadash—don't miss it!

Adult Education

Was Spinoza a Jewish Thinker?
This Sunday, we continue our Adult Ed program by veering off a little from our Torah study into learning about some post-Torah Jewish thinkers.  (The Torah portion this week is about the details of building the Tabernacle - not that exciting anyway.)  We'll start with a Jewish philosopher that was actually thrown out of the Jewish community - Baruch (or Benedict) de Spinoza.  They're still arguing over Spinoza's influence - on the Enlightenment, on the separation of church and state, and on modern Judaism.  Was he the first secular Jew?  Or not really a Jewish thinker at all?  Or something else entirely?  Come and learn - but first print out this very brief article about Spinoza, for background.  See you Sunday!

The Rabbi’s Corner

March 1-2, 2013 / 20 Adar 5773
Shabbat Ki Tissa
Torah: Exodus 30:11 - 34:35
Maftir: Numbers 19:1 - 19:22 | Shabbat Parah
Haftarah: Ezekiel 36:16 - 36:38 | Shabbat Parah

“Living at our Best”

Dear Friends,

In this week’s Torah portion, the children of Israel are waiting at the base of Mount Sinai for Moses to return from his encounter with God on the summit.  More than a month has gone by with no word.  Many become concerned that perhaps Moses has died and that God has abandoned them in the wilderness.  They demand that an idol be made for them to worship as they did in Egypt.  A midrash interpretive story tells how one leader of Israel stood against them reminding them that they had seen God’s miracles when they left Egypt and therefore, did not need a visible idol to comfort them. The mob killed him.  Then they approached Aaron, who quickly gave in, requiring only that gold rings be given so that a ‘golden calf’ could be fashioned.  Jewish tradition pardons Aaron because he knew that he had to do something - anything - to stall and placate the mob until Moses returned.  Nevertheless, the Golden Calf affair is considered one of the darkest periods in biblical history because the people became impatient and frustrated.  Their lack of faith almost undid the Jewish people….


To read the rest of The Rabbi’s Corner, visit our website.

Donations

Thanks to the following people for their donations:

Rabbi's Discretionary Fund:
Marissa Roseman, in honor of Rabbi Eitan officiating at Carly's bat mitzvah

Camp Scholarship Fund:
Marissa Roseman, in honor of Carly's bat mitzvah

General Fund:
James C. Bonbright III, in memory of Judy Hartsman

Community News

Parent & Family Connection for LGBTQ Jews in Chicagoland
Is your child gay, lesbian, transgender, queer, or questioning? Do you want to talk to other Jewish families with LGBTQ children? If so, join the monthly discussions with Parent & Family Connection for LGBTQ Jews in Chicagoland. Upcoming meetings will be held on March 11, April 22, and May 20. Upcoming topics will include: transgender youth; passing--who knows, who doesn’t know; navigating a hetero-sexist world; healthy relationships and violence in the GLBTQ community; and conversation about creating inclusive communities.

With support from Keshet, Response provides group support for those dealing with any stage of the coming out process. Response helps adolescents in the Jewish and general community develop skills in communication, decision-making and leadership necessary to deal with life’s challenges. Response is a program of JCFS, a partner in serving our community, supported by the Jewish United Fund/Jewish Federation.

SHOP Shir Hadash

SHOP for Our New Home!
SHOP orders of at least $400 are now payable by credit card. Annual SHOP orders are also payable by credit card. If every family purchases $400 a month in grocery, gas, or other cards, we can earn more than $15,000!

Shir Hadash believes that an inability to pay should never be a barrier to membership or education. Special consideration is given to our members when circumstances prevent them from meeting any part of their financial commitment. To offset this consideration and to make up the budgetary deficit, the Board is asking that all members consider making a monthly commitment to using SHOP gift cards. Purchasing SHOP gift cards helps the shul raise much needed funds without spending any more money than you already do for your regular expenses. A complete list of the many gift cards available through this program, along with the percentage the shul earns, is available on our website. Orders can be picked up at Sunday school or the Shir Hadash office.

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Wednesday, February 20, 2013

Wednesday, February 20, 2013

DID YOU MISS THE TOWN HALL? You can tour the new building this Sunday, February 24, from 9:30 to 10:30 a.m. Details below.

To view this blog in its entirety, go to our website!

What’s Happening at a Glance

Membership and Upcoming Events
  • RSVP today! Purim Extravaganza on February 23
  • New! Business Mastermind Group meets this Sunday, February 24
  • New building tour THIS SUNDAY, February 24
  • Share your feedback on the new building
  • Save the date for our community Seder, Tuesday, March 26
  • April book club
  • Last chance to see “The Whipping Man”
  • Soup kitchen wrapup
Education Update
  • Purim carnival on February 24
  • Shir Hadash “Ta'am Yisrael - Taste of Israel”
    participants in Israel earlier this month.
    Pictured from left to right
    Back row: Rabbi Eitan Weiner-Kaplow (staff), Natalie 
    McCulloh, Drew Gisby, Mollie Zweiban, Ayal 
    Weiner-Kaplow (staff). Front row: Hannah Allen, 
    Jessica Lenhart, Jessica Fisher, Jenna Marvet,
    Eli Horwitz
  • Upcoming school schedule
Teen News
  • Madrichim: Confirm your Purim carnival assignments on Sunday morning
  • Seussical Midwest Teen Kallah
  • National Teen Kallah
  • Ta'am Yisrael 2013
Creative Worship & Ritual
Adult Education
Community News
  • Parent & Family Connection for LGBTQ Jews in Chicagoland

Membership and Upcoming Events

RSVP TODAY!!! Purim Extravaganza on February 23!
Shir Hadash is hosting a Purim party for all adults—singles and couples—at Rocky Vander's Cafe, 698 N. Milwaukee Avenue, Prospect Heights (immediately south of Palatine Road), from 7 to 11 p.m. on Saturday, February 23. See friends and make new ones. The party will feature a DJ, dance floor, cash bar, and Italian dinner buffet. Potluck dessert—please bring hamantaschen (prizes given for the best homemade hamentaschen!), and other desserts. We’ll also play party games! Come as you like or as you want. Costumes are encouraged. The cost is $20/person. (Festivities start and run throughout the evening, but if you have to miss dinner, come at 9 p.m. for $10). RSVP TODAY (we need to give the restaurant a head count!) by sending an e-mail to membership@shir-hadash.org or calling Rebecca at (847) 509-9951. Prepayment is appreciated; please send your check to the Shir Hadash office; cash or check only at the door.

New! Business Mastermind Group
The Business Mastermind Group will be meeting on the first Sunday of the month from 10:30 a.m. to noon while religious school is in session. The mission is to build mutually beneficial relationships with Shir Hadash small business owners by providing value to other group members. Each meeting will feature a topic of interest that everyone agrees is important. We will focus on that topic for the whole meeting where everyone provides examples of their experiences as related to the topic. At the first meeting, the group will pick a list of topics. Each meeting will start with brief introductions of everyone in the group. In this way, new people are always invited and will feel comfortable attending. For more information, contact Dan Wellisch at danw@wellsoftware.com. 

New Building Tour THIS SUNDAY, February 24
As a result of the growing interest and excitement around the building, we have received a number of requests to view the building from members and prospective families who were not able to attend our recent Town Hall. We will be scheduling periodic tours to accommodate this new demand.

Our next tour is scheduled for this Sunday morning, February 24, from 9:30 to 10:30 a.m. The address is 200 W. Dundee Road in Wheeling. So drop your kids off at religious school and head to the new building for a tour! You’ll be done in plenty of time to get back to the school for the Purim Carnival at 11:05 a.m. Shir Hadash President Jeffrey Wallk and other members of our Board will be there to show you around.

Share Your Feedback on the New Building
Check out the plans for our new building!  We want to hear from you about our new building! Let us know what you think! Please e-mail your thoughts to Shir Hadash President Jeffrey Wallk at president@shir-hadash.org. If you would like to talk in person, please come by for a tour this Sunday from 9:30 to 10:30 a.m. Thanks!

Save the Date for Our Community Seder
This year, our community seder will be held on Tuesday, March 26, at Our Lady of the Brook.
Details soon to follow. Contact Melanie Andes at fmandes@comcast.net or (847) 913-9198 if you have any questions.

April Book Club
Our next book club meeting will be held in April. We are reading Everything Is Illuminated by Jonathan Safran Foer. We are seeking a host to sponser the book club at their home. Please contact Meryl Abensohn at abenkras@aol.com.

Last Chance to See “The Whipping Man”
"The Whipping Man" at the Northlight Theatre in Skokie runs through Sunday February 24. “The Whipping Man” takes place immediately after the end of the Civil War. When Caleb, a wounded Confederate soldier, returns home, he finds his family’s home in ruins and abandoned by all but two former slaves. United by their Jewish faith, the three men celebrate Passover while wrestling with a shared past they cannot escape. They unravel a tangle of secrets that threaten their family and faith. Slavery and war, they discover, warp even good men’s souls. The playwrite, Matthew Lopez, won the 2011 NY John Gassner Playwriting Award by the NY Outer Critics Circle for this play. Members’ reviews have been overwhelmingly enthusiastic—“Fabulous", "Insightlful", "Not to be missed.” We will hold a discussion about the relationship of Jews and Slavery in the American South in the next few weeks.

Soup Kitchen Wrapup
On February 17, Shir Hadash participated in preparing, cooking, and serving more than 90 meals to needy individuals and families as part of the St Paul’s Lutheran Church soup kitchen in Evanston. We had more than 25 volunteers of all ages who helped prepare the meals. Shir Hadash served a variety of hot dishes including several kinds of chicken, pasta, mostaccioli, casseroles, vegetables and desserts. In addition to preparing the hot meals, volunteers also made sack lunch meals that guests could take with them as they left to help get them to their next meal. It is always great to serve at this soup kitchen because there is no age restriction so young children are able to help right alongside the adults. Shir Hadash serves twice a year at the St. Paul's soup kitchen. We will serve again this coming fall. Please contact Mark Lenhart at mjlenhart@comcast.net with any questions.


Education Update

Sunday, February 24: Purim Carnival!
Join in the fun with your children. This year’s Purim carnival will be held from 11 a.m. to 12:30 p.m. at the Hellenic American Academy on Sunday, February 24. We will have a regular school morning from 9:15 to 11 a.m., followed by a Purim carnival complete with a Purim spiel. The madrichim (teen leaders), led by Purim Specialist Nat Arons, have been preparing this great day for several weeks. They have games and treats geared for boys and girls of all ages. In order to make the day an even grander celebration, please send your child (and perhaps yourself) in costume.

Friday, March 1: Pizza Dinner for K through 3rd Graders!
Please mark your calendars for a good time with families from the Shir Hadash primary grades Gan (Kindergarten) through 3rd grade. The children always have a great time helping Rabbi Eitan lead services, and who can turn down the opportunity to celebrate shabbat with a such lovely group of people?! Services will be held at LCHS. Stay tuned for more information!

Upcoming School Schedule
  • Sunday, February 24: Purim Carnival, 11:05 a.m.
  • Friday, March 1: Pizza dinner and Shabbat services will be led by grades K through 3, LCHS
  • Monday, April 1: Havayah (high school class)
  • Sunday, April 7: 7th Graders Present: Yom Hashoah Service at Sunday School
  • Sunday, April 14: Sunday School
  • Monday, April 15: Havayah
  • Sunday, April 21: Yom Tikkun Olam (Day to Repair the World) No school at Hellenic American Academy
  • Sunday, April 28: Sunday School Open House for Prospective Members
  • Monday, April 29: Last Day of Havayah BBQ
  • Sunday, May 5: Last Day of Sunday School
  • Friday, May 17: Shabbat services will be led by our Havayah
Teen News

Madrichim: Confirm Your Purim Carnival Assignments on Sunday Morning
Please remember to check in with Nat when you arrive at Sunday school this Sunday, February 24, to confirm your Purim carnival assignments. Thanks!

Seussical Midwest Regional Kallah
Oh, the places Jews’ll Go: Dr. Seuss was the theme for the 2013 Midwest Regional Kallah and what fun the teens had with the weekend! This year, more than 60 participants from five congregations in the Midwest gathered at the Perlman Retreat Center in Wisconsin. Kids from 6th through 12th grade joined together for a weekend retreat that highlighted programming created by a group of high school teen leaders who have been planning the weekend events for almost a year. Woven throughout Shabbat and beyond, the teens created programs to explore Reconstructionist Jewish values centered around the books, poetry, and movies of Dr. Seuss. Whether they were softly singling Kabbalat Shabbat melodies or dancing to Thriller, the teens connected to Judaism and each other, and explored their Jewish identities. Everyone loved every minute of the Kallah—until it was time to board the buses and say goodbye until next year.

National Teen Kallah
The weekend of March 22-24, 8th through 12th graders from Reconstructionist congregations across North America will have the opportunity to attend the exciting No'ar Hadash North American Teen Kallah, which will be held this year in Boston. This amazing weekend will be a great opportunity for you to meet other teens, have fun, take part in experiential Jewish learning, laugh at an improv comedy show, sing and dance, hang out, explore Boston, and be part of our exciting youth movement. Please contact info@campjrf.org or youth@shir-hadash.org for an application.

Ta’am Yisrael 2013
Eight Shir Hadash 8th graders joined 162 other Chicago teens in this year’s Ta’am Yisrael: Taste of Israel trip from January 28 through February 5. Rabbi Eitan and Ayal Weiner-Kaplow joined as staff members on the adventure. The goal of Ta’am Yisrael is to provide an intense and meaningful experience in the Land of Israel that will create a firm and lasting foundation of Jewish identity for our young teens. Ta’am graduates often become leaders in the Jewish community. Highlights of Ta’am Yisrael include:
  • Shabbat in Jerusalem
  • The Kotel and Jerusalem’s Old City
  • Climbing Masada
  • Swimming in the Dead Sea
  • Beit Guvrin/Archeological Dig
  • Activities with Israeli youth
  • Bedouin Tent experience
  • Jeep Rides in the desert
  • Yad Vashem(Israel’s National Holocaust Memorial)
  • Ammunition Hill
  • Na Laga’at deaf-blind theater company
  • An evening desert experience
Creative Worship & Ritual

Meet Our Service Leaders of the Future—and Present!
After a pizza dinner at 6:15, join us for a very special program on Friday, March 1 (7:15 at LCHS), led by the Kindergarten, 1st, 2nd, and 3rd graders in our Religious School. Our students have been hard at work learning their prayers, and now they get the chance to recite them in a real service. Of course, there will also be singing and storytelling - and don't forget to bring something for the pot-luck oneg! This service is for everyone—the kids, their families and friends, and everyone else who enjoys sharing a Friday night with Shir Hadash—don't miss it!

Adult Education

“The Lord Has Given You These Fifteen <<crash>>; Ten, Ten Commandments!”
 This week at Torah class (9:30 on Sunday at Hellenic), we get to that part of the Exodus story that everyone THINKS they know: the Jews are at Mount Sinai, and Moses goes up, doesn't come down for a while, they build the Golden Calf, he comes down with the tablets and is VERY unhappy... But in the book, it's not entirely the same as in the movie. So come to class, study the portion, and hear the REAL story! See you then!

The Rabbi’s Corner

February 22-23, 2013 / 13 Adar 5773
Shabbat Tetzaveh - Zachor
Torah - Exodus 27:20-30:10 & Deuteronomy 25:17-19
Haftarah – I Samuel 15:2-34
“Light, Happiness, Celebration and Prosperity”

Dear Friends,

This Saturday evening through Sunday we will join in celebrating Purim, the spring-fever festival of deliverance from the evil Haman of Persia. A special Torah reading is added for this Shabbat morning to remind us never to forget the cruel acts of the tribe of Amalek, the ancestors of Haman who terrorized our Hebrew ancestors as they journeyed through the Sinai desert towards the Promised Land.

Despite all the silly shpiels, graggers and raucous merrymaking, Purim has become a key piece of our identity as it has developed since the end of World War II. The Holocaust, anti-Semitism and Arab loathing of Jews have been held as a central reason for Jewish continuity. For decades, we have been taught to be Jewish because so many hate us throughout the world. Purim and the Holocaust…

To read the rest of The Rabbi’s Corner, visit our website.


Community News

Parent & Family Connection for LGBTQ Jews in Chicagoland
Is your child gay, lesbian, transgender, queer, or questioning? Do you want to talk to other Jewish families with LGBTQ children? If so, join the monthly discussions with Parent & Family Connection for LGBTQ Jews in Chicagoland. Upcoming meetings will be held on March 11, April 22, and May 20. Upcoming topics will include: transgender youth; passing--who knows, who doesn’t know; navigating a hetero-sexist world; healthy relationships and violence in the GLBTQ community; and conversation about creating inclusive communities.


On Monday, February 25, the group will be discussing Gender Identity and the “Trans* Umbrella,” from 7 to 8:30 p.m. at Response, 9304 Skokie Blvd, Skokie. Contact Rachel Marro at RachelMarro@jcfs.org to RSVP. 



With support from Keshet (www.keshetonline.org), Response provides group support for those dealing with any stage of the coming out process. Response helps adolescents in the Jewish and general community develop skills in communication, decision-making and leadership necessary to deal with life’s challenges. Response is a program of JCFS, a partner in serving our community, supported by the Jewish United Fund/Jewish Federation.


SHOP Shir Hadash

SHOP for Our New Home
SHOP orders of at least $400 are now payable by credit card. Annual SHOP orders are also payable by credit card. If every family purchases $400 a month in grocery, gas, or other cards, we can earn more than $15,000. Shir Hadash believes that an inability to pay should never be a barrier to membership or education. Special consideration is given to our members when circumstances prevent them from meeting any part of their financial commitment. To offset this consideration and to make up the budgetary deficit, the Board is asking that all members consider making a monthly commitment to using shop gift cards. Purchasing SHOP gift cards helps the shul raise much needed funds without spending any more money than you already do for your regular expenses. A complete list of the many gift cards available through this program, along with the percentage the shul earns is available on our website. Orders can be picked up at Sunday school or the Shir Hadash office.

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Wednesday, February 6, 2013

Wednesday, February 4, 2013

TOWN HALL MEETING THIS SUNDAY!!! We are excited to share the details about our new building at our upcoming town hall meeting on Sunday, February 10, from 2 to 4. See details below.

To view this blog in its entirety, go to our website!

What’s Happening at a Glance

Rabbi Eitan and Ayal Weiner-Kaplow
on the Ta'am Yisrael 8th grade
trip 2013!
Membership and Upcoming Events
  • Town Hall meeting about the new building THIS SUNDAY, February 10
  • TONIGHT! Wednesday, February 6: Book club
  • Join Shir Hadash to see The Whipping Man on February 16 or February 17
  • Soup kitchen on February 17
  • Limmud Chicago on February 17
  • ADULT PARTY: Purim Extravaganza on February 23
Education Update
  • Sunday, February 24: Purim carnival (for kids)
  • Friday, March 1: Grades K through 3, Pizza dinner and services!
  • Upcoming school schedule
Teen News
  • Purim carnival planning on Sunday, February 10
  • National teen Kallah
Creative Worship & Ritual
  • Friday, February 15: Purim--The Persian Connection
Adult Education
  • Sunday, February 10: Torah study
Community News
  • Parent & Family Connection for LGBTQ Jews in Chicagoland

Membership and Upcoming Events

Town Hall Meeting THIS SUNDAY, February 10
This, Sunday, February 10 from 2 to 4 p.m., please join us for a Town Hall meeting to share information about OUR NEW HOME! The location for the meeting will be at the building (200 W. Dundee Road in Wheeling). Refreshments will be served and everyone will have a chance to tour the building. The building will be shown in its current state (no improvements or safety measures for small children); therefore, we ask that only adults and teens attend. Please remember that the building is under the seller’s ownership at this time, so we will conduct a series of tours to minimize congestion and risk to individuals and property.


Parking is available at the new building as well as at the Hawthorne School in Wheeling, which is located just north of the building. To get to the Hawthorne School parking lot from Dundee Road, take Wolf Road (which is just east of the building) north to Glendale Road. Make a left turn onto Glendale Road. It dead ends at the Hawthorne School, which is located at 200 Glendale Road. We have permission to use their lot.

TONIGHT! Book Club on February 6
Our next book will be One More River by Mary Glickman. This novel is about race, class, and Jewish life in the American South during the 1920s and 1960s. The story revolves around a man pursuing his roots in the course of a romance. The book was chosen by Spertus for the “One Community, One Book” for this year. Book Club will be held on tonight, Wednesday, February 6, at 7:30 at the Zwicks’ home,  385 Castlewood Lane, Deerfield. Contact Meryl Abensohn at abenkras@aol.com to RSVP and for more information.

Join Shir Hadash to See “The Whipping Man” on February 16 or 17
On Saturday, February 16, or Sunday, February 17, Shir Hadash will be going to the theater to see the play “The Whipping Man.” “The Whipping Man” takes place immediately after the end of the Civil War. When Caleb, a wounded Confederate soldier, returns home, he finds his family’s home in ruins and abandoned by all but two former slaves. United by their Jewish faith, the three men celebrate Passover while wrestling with a shared past they cannot escape. They unravel a tangle of secrets that threaten their family and faith. Slavery and war, they discover, warp even good men’s souls. The playwrite, Matthew Lopez, won the 2011 NY John Gassner Playwriting Award by the NY Outer Critics Circle for this play.

Shir Hadash will be going to the play on both Saturday February 16, at 8 p.m. and Sunday, February 17, at 2:30 and 7 p.m. Tickets at $15 are sold out for Saturday performance but are still available at full price. Reduced rate tickets are still available for both Sunday performances on February 17. Contact NorthlightTheatre to purchase tickets. Use the code THWEEK to get this rate. Tickets may be available closer to the dates on Goldstar or hottix. The play had gotten great reviews from several of our members. We hope you can join us! Contact Meryl Abensohn at abenkras@aol.com for more information.

We will plan to have a discussion of the play about two weeks after the outing. So go see it whenever you can!

Soup Kitchen on February 17
The Social Action Committee needs your help. On Sunday, February 17, we will be preparing, cooking and serving over 90 meals to needy individuals at the St Paul’s Lutheran Church soup kitchen in Evanston. This event will require volunteers to be available from 1:30 to 4:30 p.m. We need a minimum of 25 volunteers, or about 10-12 families.

Each family will be responsible for bringing an entrée that will feed 15 to 20 individuals, 1 gallon milk, 1 gallon orange juice, 1 large bag frozen mixed vegetables, 1 large bag of fruit (oranges, bananas, etc.), and dessert. If you are interested in helping, please click on the following link. Please note that we are limiting the number of volunteers for this activity to help avoid overcrowding in the kitchen and to ensure everyone has a meaningful volunteer experience. Once all slots are filled, we will not be accepting any additional volunteers. More information will be sent to all registered volunteers approximately one week before the event. The next opportunity to volunteer for a Soup Kitchen will be fall 2013. There is no age limit to volunteer, but from past experience, kids should be at least six years old to fully participate. Contact Social Action Committee Chair Mark Lenhart at (847) 478-1544 or mjlenhart@comcast.net if you have questions.

Limmud Chicago on February 17
On Sunday, February 17, there is a very special Jewish learning event going on at UIC—the fourth annual Limmud Chicago! Limmud Chicago features sessions on a wide variety of topics of Jewish interest—cultural, religious, geographic, or political. There are two special themes this year:
  • The Jews Who Made Chicago: This theme explores Chicago’s Jewish changemakers of yesterday and today, and the influence Jews have had on Chicago’s architecture, political system, music, art, neighborhoods, theater and more.
  • Jewish Love: This theme addresses the vast landscape of Jewish love, from what text has to say about gender roles to discussions of Jewish masculinity to how to love at the end-of-life.
Shir Hadash is a sponsor, so if you register, there is a special discount! Check it out at www.limmudchicago.org. We are going to arrange a "field trip" for Shir Hadashniks that are heading down to UIC, so if you’re interested, send an e-mail to Andrea Idelman, at andrea0822@yahoo.com, and we’ll get a car pool together.

Purim Extravaganza on February 23!
Shir Hadash is hosting a Purim party for all adults—singles and couples—at Rocky Vander's Cafe, 698 N. Milwaukee Avenue, Prospect Heights (immediately south of Palatine Road), from 7 to 11 p.m. on Saturday, February 23. See friends and make new ones. The party will feature a DJ, dance floor, cash bar, and Italian dinner buffet. Potluck dessert—please bring hamantaschen (prizes given for the best homemade hamentaschen!), and other desserts. We’ll also play party games! Come as you like or as you want. Costumes are encouraged. The cost is $20/person. (Festivities start and run throughout the evening, but if you have to miss dinner, come at 9 p.m. for $10). RSVP by February 19 (we need to give the restaurant a head count!) by sending an e-mail to membership@shir-hadash.org or calling Rebecca at (847) 509-9951. Prepayment is appreciated; please send your check to the Shir Hadash office; cash or check only at the door.

Education Update

Sunday, February 24: Purim Carnival!
Join in the fun with your children. This year’s Purim carnival will be held from 11 a.m. to 12:30 p.m. at the Hellenic American Academy on Sunday, February 24. We will have a regular school morning from 9:15 to 11 a.m., followed by a Purim carnival complete with a Purim spiel. The madrichim (teen leaders), led by Purim Specialist Nat Arons, have been preparing this great day for several weeks. They have games and treats geared for boys and girls of all ages. In order to make the day an even grander celebration, please send your child (and perhaps yourself) in costume.

Friday, March 1: Pizza Dinner for K through 3rd Graders!
Please mark your calendars for a good time with families from the Shir Hadash primary grades Gan (Kindergarten) through 3rd grade. The children always have a great time helping Rabbi Eitan lead services, and who can turn down the opportunity to celebrate shabbat with a such lovely group of people?! Services will be held at LCHS. Stay tuned for more information!

Upcoming School Schedule
  • Sunday, February 10: Sunday School
  • Monday, February 11: Havayah (High School Class)
  • Friday, February 15 to Sunday, February 17: Youth Kallah (Retreat) in Wisconsin
  • Sunday, February 17: No Sunday School
  • Sunday, February 24: Purim Carnival 11:05
  • Friday, March 1: Shabbat services will be led by grades K through 3
  • Monday, April 1: Havayah (high school class)
  • Sunday, April 7: 7th Graders Present: Yom Hashoah Service at Sunday School
  • Sunday, April 14: Sunday School
  • Monday, April 15: Havayah
  • Sunday, April 21: Yom Tikkun Olam (Day to Repair the World) No school at Hellenic American Academy
  • Sunday, April 28: Sunday School Open House for Prospective Members
  • Monday, April 29: Last Day of Havayah BBQ
  • Sunday, May 5: Last Day of Sunday School
  • Friday, May 17: Shabbat services will be led by our Havayah
Teen News

Purim Carnival Planning on Sunday, February 10
The madrichim are busy working with Nat to create an all-school Purim program on Sunday, February 24. The teens are working hard to make this a special experience for our Sunday School. Madrichim: the final planning meeting will be on Sunday, February 10, at 8:40 a.m.

National Teen Kallah
The weekend of March 22-24, 8th through 12th graders from Reconstructionist congregations across North America will have the opportunity to attend the exciting No'ar Hadash North American Teen Kallah, which will be held this year in Boston. This amazing weekend will be a great opportunity for you to meet other teens, have fun, take part in experiential Jewish learning, laugh at an improv comedy show, sing and dance, hang out, explore Boston, and be part of our exciting youth movement. Please contact info@campjrf.org or youth@shir-hadash.org for an application.

Creative Worship & Ritual

Friday, February 15: Purim—The Persian Connection
Shir Hadash members will speak about what it was like to grow up in Iran with Esther and Mordecai as heroes of the Jewish community. Some have visited Esther's tomb and will tell about the experience. Come hear what the Persian Jewish community thinks of the Book of Esther and its meaningful and enlightening impact on their lives. In addition, Shir Hadash member Barry Cain will present a number of his brilliant wildlife and travel photographs in an exhibition during the oneg refreshments. This will be the first of four visual arts exhibits scheduled for the winter and spring. We’ll see you at 7:30 at LCHS; bring treats for the potluck oneg.

Adult Education

Sunday, February 10: An Eye for an Eye, Meat and Milk, and More!
This Sunday morning (9:30 at Hellenic), we continue past the Ten Commandments to some other major commandments that were also given at Mount Sinai. These include an eye for an eye, no boiling a kid in its mother's milk, and—you may have forgotten this one—do not allow sorceresses to live! If you want to learn what those commandments are REALLY all about, come to class, and be part of the discussion! Check out the Torah portion here. 


Community News

Parent & Family Connection for LGBTQ Jews in Chicagoland
Is your child gay, lesbian, transgender, queer, or questioning? Do you want to talk to other Jewish families with LGBTQ children? If so, join the monthly discussions with Parent & Family Connection for LGBTQ Jews in Chicagoland. Upcoming meetings will be held on March 11, April 22, and May 20. Upcoming topics will include: transgender youth; passing--who knows, who doesn’t know; navigating a hetero-sexist world; healthy relationships and violence in the GLBTQ community; and conversation about creating inclusive communities.

With support from Keshet (www.keshetonline.org), Response provides group support for those dealing with any stage of the coming out process. Response helps adolescents in the Jewish and general community develop skills in communication, decision-making and leadership necessary to deal with life’s challenges. Response is a program of JCFS, a partner in serving our community, supported by the Jewish United Fund/Jewish Federation.

SHOP Shir Hadash

SHOP for Our New Home!
Shop orders of at least $400 are now payable by credit card. Annual SHOP orders are also payable by credit card. If every family purchases $400 a month in grocery, gas, or other cards, we can earn more than $15,000. Shir Hadash believes that an inability to pay should never be a barrier to membership or education. Special consideration is given to our members when circumstances prevent them from meeting any part of their financial commitment. To offset this consideration and to make up the budgetary deficit, the Board is asking that all members consider making a monthly commitment to using shop gift cards. Purchasing SHOP gift cards helps the shul raise much needed funds without spending any more money than you already do for your regular expenses. A complete list of the many gift cards available through this program, along with the percentage the shul earns is available on our website. Orders can be picked up at Sunday school or the Shir Hadash office.

Thanks to the following families for supporting SHOP this week:
  • Callistein
  • M. Graff
  • Friedman
  • G. Graff
  • Allen
  • Zinbarg
  • Elfant
  • Farahmandpour
  • Fargotstein
  • Grills
  • Mostow
  • Singer
  • Wexler
  • Zwick